Without a Voice

My child asked me so many times through out this year: "Mom, can I come home?".  They said in Family Court, that has nothing to do with preserving the family anymore, that she is too young to express her wishes and they cannot understand what she is saying.  Somehow I can understand her just fine but I am now legally dead to say anything. 

What happens if no one listens to what you have to say and the attorney the State provided the child is not allowed by the DFPS representatives to visit the child.   And the CASA representative that has been working with the family all of a sudden is not in Court as her doctor prescribed that she can not testify... I never heard anything like that!  Was her heart about to explode due to all the injustice they wanted her to say about the loving parents of the child and the child's fake best interest?  The woman couldn't bare to pull the trigger to my husband and I but they had to pull the trigger so they found a willing and able boss to replace her to testify to what the other one would've supposedly said.  What voice does that child have other than the voice of the ghost parent that has been terminated by the pack of hunters for treasure.  

The foster family is the new US normal.  We are no longer allowed to raise and parent our children.  We are no longer afforded life and liberty with our little creations.  Parents are now just the way to make surrogate babies for all the foster wanna be's to enjoy and make money on.  They even said it in Court on the record: what's wrong with us compensating the family who is caring for a child that is in our possession?  I know what's wrong: people are greedy and people like money, and people will say anything to keep your child from you if it gives them profit and recognition.  Because the majority of the people that do this sort of work don't do it due to the kindness of their heart, they do it for a paycheck.  They do not care that they are hurting the child and the parents, they don't care that they are breaking the bonds and families, they just simply don't care what's right and wrong. 

I feel like I have no voice right now.  Before the appeal the attorneys have to withdraw, than I have to meet a new attorney, and I have to trust that the system that did me wrong so many times will get it right for the sake of my little girl being able to see her mom again and come back home.  The only voice I have left is the clicking voice of my keyboard and the silent voice of the internet hoping that someone can change this awful DFPS adopting agency back into a pro family organization, so my children can not lose their children like I lost mine.  Children deserve to be with their families.  We all like to go visit people but we all want to come back home.  Nobody wants to go visit a friend and be forced to stay there forever. 

The day has to come when people will open their eyes and speak up against this cruel injustice towards our little once.  Parents have always been and are the best advocates for their children.  Parents have kids best interests at heart.  Parents are human, but parents are far from heartless.  Parents just try to be the best parents they can be. 

Sometimes people talk about the afterlife and heaven as a desirable destination, I also see so many cruel heartless people going to churches, I say to those people: if all those church going people are going to heaven I am fine right here where I am because I do not want to be stuck for eternity with any of those beings and heaven will become hell before you know it with all the hypocrites that are eager to say Jesus is the Lord and go to heaven, without ever listening and paying attention and living what the Ward has said. 

My child is screaming without the voice and I am feeling her pain.  My older children have chosen the destiny they are on, I can't stop the reality discipline of God teaching them the consequences of making such a rush decision.  I love my children.  I want them to be happy.  And if happy they are, so be it.  I don't feel that they are happy, they are simply stuck with no way to fix anything, with no way to make things better.  But the little one - she didn't have a choice in a matter and the choice was made for her by all the wrong people, who are unable to be humane. 

My oldest one asked me once if I wanted to be a kid again, so I can get away with everything.  I told him I never wanted to be a kid again, and as a kid I didn't like being a kid, because I didn't like the feeling of not being able to make my own decisions, didn't like being told what to do and I definitely didn't like when I saw things are not right and I felt I was helpless to do anything to fix it.  That just hit me: I feel like that right now.  They regressed me to the feeling of helplessness: they stole my dreams, my desires, my rights and my loved ones.  They always ask me: Who are they?  They are: they know exactly who they are, I can name each one of them by name, but I will keep that to myself for now. 

When the ability to parent is undermined by the State we are in bad shape.  When we have to ask for permission to give our children a haircut, when we have to ask for forgiveness for not being violent? for not fighting? for not spanking? for not abusing? for caring? for loving? for being kind and helpful to the other parents and wishing them well and success and not trying to take anyone's rights? When we have to ask for forgiveness for not being overprotective? or having our own opinions? or having a loving relationship?  When we have to ask for forgiveness for not being aware?  .... when we have to cry about something we didn't do?

I think we are at the end of the line of parental rights all together.  People are tired, and those that managed to stay out of trouble and still are able to vote and be on the Jury duty are even more tired trying to stay out of trouble all these years keeping their noses clean and hiding all the wrongdoings they are most definitely have as we are all sinners, perfect or not. 

They asked me if I know what DFPS normal case is... I said: if this is normal than it's wrong, I sure hope than it's not what it is, as I thought DFPS took abused and neglected children.  They asked me what do I see as abuse: I said I do not see the removal as necessary unless serious crime or abuse happened to that particular child by that particular parent.  They implied I am minimizing the effects of emotional abuse - but am I?  They are abusing my daughter, me and my husband right now, and I don't see them on trial and if I would see one I would join it. 

Stand up for parental rights which is the same as the rights of our children.  Our children have the right to be with us, their parents.  Promote DFPS reform.  We have to stop unnecessary separations and definitely have to stop these unlawful and ungodly terminations of parental rights. 

Support Innocent Tears Act.  Promote change and be kind to each other. 






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