Modern Day Bullying

In Court they said they could not break through my facade, they believe I am not truthful and I do not recognize my faults.  They said that I am a "good faker".  They actually asked me what I think about that.  I answered: "If I would be a "good faker" you would not know I am faking".   I told them: "A lot of this gets lost in translation... interpretation of the questions and answers by me and others involved."

They didn't ask me what I thought about the "breaking through the facade"...  I wish they would.  For those who don't know what that means, it means revealing the true nature and reality of someone.  If they would ask me I would have told them: "I don't hide who I am and they are just unwilling to listen and pay attention. "

I am a good person.  I live my life lead by kindness in my heart not desire to know everything, not desire to be rich, not desire to possess; but the desire to live and love and share that love with someone and be home; have a home to share with me, my husband, my children and my loved ones.  If I could I would have all those I love live next to me, but I understand that they also have homes that they love and live in and have their own little families they share their lives with.  We all have a desire to belong and feel at home. 

In the old times families lived together on family owned land.  It was respected and admired.  Now, a person who owns an apartment is considered to be safe and the person who has a house with the fence is considered to be dangerous.  Our house has been deemed unsafe because we have a fence and DFPS cannot jump over and come into the yard to harass us any time of day and night. 

Complements of my ex it is said that I am being held hostage at a compound as he likes to refer to our house.  That is what he refers to my marriage nowadays, he has been saying this since 2020.  I am a hostage because I am married to my husband, I love him and I love my house and want to be here, where I am with my children.  One would think that I should have the liberty to do so.  But wait a minute!  My ex says he is my only link to reality and I am unable to reach any other help.  And the prosecuting attorney used this story to say I am unfit mother due to my inability to leave controlling according to them relationship and provide safety to my children.

I seem to be able to communicate right now from the comfort of my home to the whole world.  Guess who I didn't reach out to?  My ex.  What I choose to do is none of his business in my opinion, and if we wouldn't have kids together I would already have dropped him like a hot rock, but I am stuck in this co-parenting relationship with another DFPS led witch hunt he organized against me and my husband in 2020, where he was also a star witness. 

Modern day Bullying...  I was trying to share with my children who I am and my dislike of bullying by telling them a story from my childhood.  I was very little I couldn't be more than 10 years old when this happened.  I grew up in Ukraine during USSR times when communists were still in charge and if you are familiar with it, if you were a little wealthier than others it counted against you.  I never thought that money and possessions determinate the person and who they are, to me people are people.  I had friends from all walks of life and even when I was little I had friends who had more money and friends who had less money. 

All kids were sorta friends and hanging out together on several different playgrounds in the neighborhood and one day, this one girl, the leader of the "lower ground" playground marched up to the higher playground with 10 other kids behind her both boys and girls.  She marched towards us yelling out nasty comments about my friend trying to chase her back into her house and off the street where we were talking.  I remember the feeling of courage that overwhelmed me. They were about 30 feet away.  I stepped towards the leader girl in front of my friend, put my hand in front of me and told them all to stop where they are.  I then told the leader bully she has no right to talk to my friend like this, she has her own playground and she can go back and be mean where she came from.

Next time I know the girl said: "Or what?"  I said: "Or I will fight you."  She said: "OK" and started to get her fists together getting ready to fight.  I said: "Fine."  

We are talking about little kids here...  I braced myself and started doing windmill-like motion with my hands walking towards the girl saying: "Go ahead, come closer. I am not afraid of you." 

 The girl expected a real fight I guess, because she just looked at me, started smiling, moved back and waved all her friends back to the lower playground they came from, saying: "Whatever, you are crazy."  That girl and I never confronted each other again, we all remained friendly and she left my friend be.

This was the first fight I ever won without touching anyone.  From there on, I learned that to win a fight you don't have to engage in the actual fight you just have to have the courage to stand up to a bully.  DFPS forgot to mention this story from 35 years ago as an example of the possibility of violent behavior. 

Now I fight with a pen and paper or more like a keyboard and internet connection.  When we grow up bullies don't disappear, they are still among us concealing themselves as "saviors".  

What is happening to me right now is the biggest and the most painful bullying experience of my life and it's happening from the hands of those that we once desired to trust.  It is supported by DFPS and unfortunately it is due to the flaws of our laws that this is allowed.  Bullying 101: separate, then attack. 

I never saw a trial before this one.  I can tell you that Jury trial in Civil cases may not be worth it ever, as the Judge has to follow the law and if the Judge doesn't you can appeal, but the Jury is led by pure emotion and they don't know you and don't have enough time to understand what's happening, they don't know the law, they just want it to be over with and go home, and when prosecuting attorney confuses them with rumors as facts, they call your house "house of horrors" and the Jury being human and trusting the system are led to believe that you are a bad person and there you are: guilty as charged. 

Prosecuting attorneys in DFPS cases prosecute criminal accusations in a lay civil case environment with nonsense accusations and pure emotions vs. facts and not findings of the truth.  They jump over your whole lifetime and find tiny episodes of your life they can use against you to paint the picture of a villain. 

We have to stand up to these Modern Day Bullies that are bullying our families, bullying the parents that are just trying to be the best parents they can be and bullying the little children by stealing their childhood with their parents while pronouncing their parents legally dead. 

Stand up for parental rights.  Listen to my story.  Learn from my pain.  Support Innocent Tears Act. 

https://www.change.org/petitiontolife

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